wship. Which four? Giving, kind words, beneficial help, consistency. These are the four grounds for the bonds of fellowship." Giving, kind words, beneficial help, & consistency in the face of events, in line with whatâs appropriate in each case, each case. These bonds of fellowship (function) in the world like the linchpins in a moving cart. Now, if these bonds of fellowship were lacking, a mother would not receive the honor & respect owed by her child, nor would a father receive what his child owes him. But because the wise show regard for these bonds of fellowship, they achieve greatness and are praised. See also: AN 2:31—32; AN 2:118; AN 6:12; AN 7:35; AN 8:24; AN 8:54 - --> - - - -